Whats the best way to approach a girl,
where i should take her ,**
how do i get comfort with her @!
is she likes me too !
and so many question like this. no need to worry every one faces these question. here we have got a complete list of do’s and dont on your date . we hope after going through this list you will be sure and confident on your date . and everthing will be in your favor.
#before making your date perfect you should must know “What is meant by dating a girl?” and the answer is simple “dating is a social activity where two people meet and get to know each other more closely with the aim of each assessing the other’s suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship ”
#1 . lets start with basic ” first impression is last impression “
first and most important thing is be self, don’t try be to someone who you are not and a important things be a gentle man. dont try your ripped jeans on your first date simple a shower and shave first and be confident don’t let your conversations boring.
And don’t get nervous.
in first date try to know whats her hobbies , her favorites things , movies ,games she likes . these topics can let your conversation keep on going and you both will have a good time.
and most important things dont ask her about her previous relationships this can ruin your date . try to keep conversation between you and her only don’t talk about any third person.
#3. when to ask a girl for date ?
No need to be in hurry asking for date to a girl. wait for right time let the things be good and when you really feel you should meet her . ask her for date right somewhere in conversation.
try to make your first few dates in public place only search for a good restaurant and ask her for coffee.
“Don’t email or text to ask a woman out for the first time. The latter are impersonal, and dating is all about getting to know someone personally. It also sets a poor tone for the relationship’s communication dynamics.” – Erika Martinez, Psy.D. Licensed Psychologist
belive or not this advice by Erika martinez will definately work.
#4. Tell your stories.
to keep conversation interesting tell your interesting stories, some interesting incidence .
don’t tell her your sad stories don’t talk about your ex girlfriend or some bad incidence but you can share some horror incidence for fun and you can also tell her about your last trip, tell her about that place and all the fun activities you had.
- you add some little bit of flirting in your first date.
- try to avoid conversation about your ex
- don’t get over exited,
- be confident and keep the conversation fun
- no need to tell her that you like her or how you feel about her on first date try to avoid this, inst’d of this try to know each other closely.
#5. Be a gentleman
open the door for her and hold seat for her. women always appreciate old school manner.you can get a rose for her these will add a favor for you.
turn off your phone or put on silent.
“Since guys tend to be very analytical, it’s easy for them to turn conversations into a fact-sharing session. Women find conversations like this boring. It’s fine to share facts, but make sure to add in humor, intrigue, and flirtatious overtones. This will make her excitedly hang on your every word.”
-David Bennett, Dating Coach at The Popular Man
if you follow these dating tips and advice you both will have a good time together
#6. don’t forget to compliment her .
women like when someone compliment them.
- tell her someone is looking beautiful
- tell her she is awesome in between your conversation
- get a rose for her
- add a little bit of flirting in your conversation
- a little bit of flirty and fun conversation on dating will definitely work
- dont tell sex is looking sexy or anything like this on your first date this can make her uncomfortable .
#7. Say no to future plans :
its your first date. keep the conversation light-heart. avoid any thing that make your conversation deep emotional. have a light fun conversation.
- try to talk about your collage events
- you can also ask about her family
- you can talk on where you both belongs to.
- don’t plan any future things with your date.
#8. Take a advice from your female friend.
dating is somethings that we can learn from school so why to take a help from your friend. you can ask them what a girl likes on her first date and you can learn from your some friends experience. this will help you on your date
asking a friend or take a help from them a very good idea. this will boost up your confidence and also you will get little comfortable if you are nervous, your friends will definitely help you.
#8. Offer to pay
On today Things have changed and most women wants to pay for their share of the bill. On your first date, insist on treating her (although don’t be forceful). This will make you look like a gentleman. But, if she still wants to pay, suggest she gets the bill on your next date, if she wishes.